tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368832310046013735.post3877843458819326192..comments2011-05-25T09:27:40.041-04:00Comments on Life with all these crazy people, me included!: people can be so dumb!mrsrobertshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17724599341081382510noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368832310046013735.post-57138698151561494752010-02-11T18:42:13.741-05:002010-02-11T18:42:13.741-05:00I'm sorry about your loss.I'm sorry about your loss.Tracyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10856593426574146448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368832310046013735.post-39742748549178753002009-12-06T21:21:46.751-05:002009-12-06T21:21:46.751-05:00i am so sorry for your loss. unfortunately people ...i am so sorry for your loss. unfortunately people who have not suffered such a tragedy will never know how hurtful certain questions and comments can be. i am part of the same club as you and completely understand you tender state. i wish you strength and courage as you try to heal from such a sad and life changing event. i am so sorry.jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14528097262965619732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368832310046013735.post-51249380213459177642009-12-06T21:01:13.933-05:002009-12-06T21:01:13.933-05:00i have just read your last couple updates and am t...i have just read your last couple updates and am torn to pieces for the loss of your dear sweet boy. i wish i did not know about that kind of pain but we are in the same club. i did not realize how brutal the questions and comments can during the early days following such a trajedy. i wish you strength and courage as you heal.jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14528097262965619732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368832310046013735.post-38790835517145430922009-12-04T17:39:49.599-05:002009-12-04T17:39:49.599-05:00I just happened upon your blog today (not really s...I just happened upon your blog today (not really sure how, but so glad that I did)<br /><br />First let me extend my deepest sympathies for your loss. I know there are no words that can make you feel better, so I hope that just knowing someone deeply feels for your loss will suffice.<br /><br />Second: WIC, my daughter gets to deal with them on a regular basis and the only conclusion I have been able to draw about them is that they apparently employ the insensitive and ill equipped. Someone should have made a note in your chart when your family members called to cancel your appointment if for no other reason than to spare you the agonizing heartache of having to explain it yet again to someone with a brain apparently the size of a pea.<br /><br />At any rate, I sometimes wonder just what people would say if we ever answered their questions honestly? Maybe it would make them engage their brain before their mouth, or maybe they just would continue in their oblivious way.<br /><br />Take care.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368832310046013735.post-48454144145963111112009-12-03T23:05:00.461-05:002009-12-03T23:05:00.461-05:00Deep breaths....God is right there by your side ho...Deep breaths....God is right there by your side hon...he knows your pain...he wont leave your side!Andihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17166839023169128933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368832310046013735.post-13784863145780354452009-12-03T10:04:46.439-05:002009-12-03T10:04:46.439-05:00I'm sorry people don't think. People say ...I'm sorry people don't think. People say all kinds of things and while I know most aren't trying to cause pain it still can cut to the core. I avoided seeing people at all for the first 6 weeks. It's also really hard when friends and family around you expect you to have 'moved on'. You don't move on from the death of a child though- you learn how to live and joy does come again but I don't think life never returns as it once was. There have been times I have shared my thoughts when people make insensitive comments because otherwise they'll keep making them and I'll feel like I'm about to explode.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13444392879558577104noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368832310046013735.post-88596005245253204292009-12-02T01:37:50.349-05:002009-12-02T01:37:50.349-05:00I swear I hate WIC! I know hate is a strong word, ...I swear I hate WIC! I know hate is a strong word, but I hate it! And about when people asked you about Thanksgiving, I know what you mean about wondering if you should be honest or not. After my first husband died, when people asked me how I was, I didn't want to say, "Oh, fine!", but I also didn't want to go into the whole thing about how he committed suicide and all. It was a real catch 22. I finally just learned to say, "I'm hanging in there!" which was about as good as it got for a while.Mom2my10 @ 11th Heavenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14813012011182498512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368832310046013735.post-74326183953342361552009-12-01T20:31:02.584-05:002009-12-01T20:31:02.584-05:00I'm so sorry.I'm so sorry.HDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04247514736268023748noreply@blogger.com